Dinner and a movie? No thanks

15 November 2012

A first date can be a nerve-wracking experience, especially if you have not been on a date in a while or are new to internet dating, so it is important to go somewhere you can both feel relaxed



Returning to the dating scene after a long time is certainly exciting, but can also be a little bit daunting. If you’ve never tried online dating before it can take a while to get to grips with, and the prospect of meeting someone that you’ve only communicated with via your computer can be a bit of a worry. With this in mind we’ve put together a selection of first date ideas which will help you relax in your date’s company, but ensure you have a night, or day, to remember.

Wine and cheese tasting

It’s a rare person who doesn’t enjoy food, but a traditional dinner date can be a bit much the first time you meet someone as it’s easy to feel uncomfortable when face to face across a table. A wine and cheese tasting date gives you the food and drink, but takes away the pressure. Taking part in an activity on a first date is a great idea – it allows you to engage with your date but dilutes the intensity and also gives you something to concentrate on and talk about if conversation falters for a moment.

Walking

If you want your date to be an intimate affair - just the you and your potential partner - but want to ease yourself into conversation gently, rather than immediately finding yourself interview-style at a table for two, why not suggest a walk to your dining destination? It doesn’t have to be a long one, but meeting on a park bench and taking a gentle stroll to a restaurant or café gives you a chance to get comfortable in each other’s company before you embark on the date proper.

Dancing

It’s Strictly season again and therefore likely that your date will have at least a passing familiarity with ballroom dancing, so why not invite them to join you in a dancing lesson? You might feel like you’re going out on a limb when you ask, but if they say yes then you’ll know you’re on the same wave length. Dancing is brilliant for a first date because it gives you something to concentrate on apart from each other but, rather thrillingly, gives you a chance to get up close and personal, which other dates rarely do. One for the more adventurous perhaps, but it will certainly be worth it!

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